I am a high school student, I do not know why after my boyfriend broke up the same, many things that affect me drowsy. Academic values I down, even at w so not too active in my organization. Anybody got suggestions?
What do you think about the story above? The question is classic enough to for teenagers today, if we absorb, this phenomenon really sad and pathetic. A sacred nature as Love is considered as a problem that makes life many people get worse. "Love is killing me ..." so said D'massive.
To get started, here I have two big-picture stories of two kinds of people who ever lived. The second stories are different, but have the same connection. Let us refer to,
big picture first,
the two men were lovers. They are the people known by many poets, especially love poets. Most of them they live in misery, but the power of love that they have a lot to inspire many people. They seemed unable to live without accompanied his soul mate. Most of them committed suicide because of this love; there is not sanctioned, because there is also a misunderstanding. For them, living together or die. Many people call it the loyalty of love.
Examples of such people are, as we know it with Layla Majnun, Tristan und Isolde, Roro Mendut and Pronocitro, until Romeo and Juliet.
The second Big Picture
the people of this age is not too long, an average of 40 to 50-an. However, every time their name in spoken, like the world to his knees and wept before them. Some of them come from working people and the poorest communities. Ages 11-17 years at many of them had memorized the Qur’an, doing a variety of fascinating research, explore science, had dared to shout the truth, the legendary leader, and even became a teacher for many older people. Skills and knowledge they have desperately needed by many rulers and kings when they were teenagers. Hundreds (even some not counted because so many) valuable works of books and scientific works were born from their gold ink. While other teenagers were looking for her idol, they choose to become thinkers and influential fighter. They never fear poverty or fear of death. Property will not be blinded them. Sense of curiosity is very high. They sleep when others sleep, and wake up before anyone else woke up. They are incredible versatility. They are heavy nerds, they are also authors snapper class. They are very aware that education is a struggle, and live off the sweat itself is a pride. Condolences them more violent deaths after a news event in Hiroshima bombing. Despite dozens of centuries, but their names remain etched and remembered every person in the world.
Examples of these people are al-Biruni, Al-Ghazali, Ibn Sina (Avicienna), Al-Haitsam, Al-Khwarizmi, Al-Kindi, Ibn Zuhr (Avenzoar), Farid Esack, Hamka, Moh. Hatta, Moch. Natsir, Steve Jobs, Aristotle, and Guten Grass.
As I said, the picture was indeed different, but they have same connection, they are Warrior Love. The people on the first story called with the nickname "Fikri Yathir", meaning what? See the Arabic dictionary or ask someone who can speak Arabic, ha-ha. However, not so curious, I love to know... means "The Crazy". While the people in the second story called with the nickname of the legend. So, the big picture which one is your choice? First or second?
Um. I am not the kind of person who (God willing) easy to play the second verdict and the big picture was not too mean anything about you before you read this article until the end. Ready?
I agree with the opinion of Henry A. Bowman, that some misguided concept of love but is believed by them as the truth. Love is often confused, almost every person has a different meaning of love. Including Lauren Slater in the 2006 edition of National Geographic said, It is difficult to separate the discussion between love and mental illness ".
What is love and love is wrong? The answer is of course not. Love is beautiful, love is happiness, and love is life. Love is a gift given by God for us. Love also was part of sunnatullah. It may even be the power to love is the highest point of the nature of true love, ha-ha...
Just who were the main problems is that many of us are either putting the heart position, and misunderstood love. (Romi satrio Wahono, 2008).
1. Mislay heart position
"If love can not restore you to me in this life ... must love will unite us in the life to come. When love calls you, follow him even though you traveled the road and climb steeply. That the words of Khalil Gibran.
Every word of love like the poem above, of course, always associated with the Heart. Coats of arms of love are often illustrated with hearts. Because of the careful reside where values of love, beauty, spirit and happiness. And we need it, even by Descartes in his book Passions of the Soul love is one of six basic passion that people have other than admiration, hatred, desire, happiness and sadness. Therefore, the fulfillment of love must be fulfilled, because it is one of self-actualization needs that must be fulfilled.
Now, let us analyze some features of today's teenagers who is in love:
* zap his eyes like arrows shot from his bow.
* Shy cat that loved ones looking.
* Seeing homes and places of loved ones seemed to be the best surge.
* Easy miss, if the day did not see him seemed want scratching the ground.
Just-enough not to most. Now, what makes teenagers can a broken heart?
* Not the he received.
* look no other male or female who hang out with him. Jealousy means...
* Phone not appointed, not replied SMS, chat in YM always invisible, so feel at ignore.
Well, from here we can see that most people put together the position and acceptance of love as the highest point of beauty, passion, and happiness. This is what we cause disappointed, sad, angry, and discouraged if the rejection by the idol heart. This is the central point of love-style problems Layla - Qais, Roro Mendut - Pronocitro, and Romeo - Juliet. Putting together the position and acceptance rather than as the culmination of love is the most important factor that makes love not is able to kill us.
The legends always position the heart to beauty, passion, and happiness when they can be useful for others. When they perform, can help many people, defend the truth, leaving precious works. They see love as a form of struggle. I had to make the new work field and help many people, I will make all the sick healed, I want to disasters can be prevented so that no loss of life, I want to teach others so that no one else is stupid. The implication could be very severe, they had to reduce sleep, work harder, and more self-discipline. When other people vying to love others, especially blind love, they choose to love you. This is the logic of love.
In addition, that's how the legend has breathed the verses of love... :)
1. One defines Love
Try to go to twitter.com, and then type the phrase "the meaning of love" or the like, then press Enter. You will discover how many people who asked or who argue about what love is. Then, the definition of love is what?
As a reference, we can examine a variety of research on love, one of the most famous is the formula of love from Robert J Sternberg: A triangular Theory of Love (Triangular Theory of Love). Sternberg said that love consists of three components: intimacy (closeness), passion (passion), and commitment.
No love is the relationship of two different sexes without any intimacy, passion, and commitment. Just friend wrote anyway! For example, two people climbed angkot again. Liking is the relationship of two people who know each other, but only as friends and mutual care. Infatuation occurs when a relationship based on lust alone, without any sense close and commitment. This relationship is commonly encountered as a disco place, or those who do evil (sorry) of rape. Types of Love Empty (empty love) are a relationship based on commitment, not based on elements of intimacy and passion. Romantic love is the love that is based on intimacy and passion, with no commitment to continue to marriage. Companionate Love is kind of long-term relationships that do not involve sexual unsure including friendship. Fateous is the kind of love is based on a certain intimacy and commitment, without any elements of Passion. In addition, Consummate Love is an ideal kind of love or perfect, because it is connected with the three elements of the above.
Although this theory is not necessarily valid, but at least we can understand that true love is not like that so far many showed in television. Salim A FILLAH, author of The Way of Love Warriors, said that commitment is a key point in the theory of love Robert J Sternberg.
There is no term "first look" at the perfect love. Perfect love is not love monkeys, too, love the location, love so shit, or the love of wealth and throne. Love can we get and can we feel with a long struggle. Understanding the differences and similarities, and glue the hearts to the commitment to keep in His way.
If you are broken heart, is now up! Open your door, step out, face to the sun, and shout boldly and loudly, forget about yourself and I'll come back to Him ". Remember, his letter N should be capitalized, and you change the memory mp3 memory of a love story song, to the song: Removing Jejakmu (Peterpan), Musnah (Andra and The Backbone), or Aku Bukan Untukmu (Rossa), and got pissed off (artificial my friend) ha-ha...
Quoting the words Mr. Romi, remember that the legend was never pursue love, because it:
Do not chase love. Be filled with legends and performance benefits for others, it will love you chase after another. In addition, when the time comes, choose the fate your love, manage your love, set levels, point position, and control the power of love in accordance with the place.
In addition, that is the love way of the legends ...
In closing, consider the words of one of these Islamic legends:
If one says: "If the Muslim worlds as you say, then why Muslims are in such miserable conditions?" I would reply: "If they are Muslims (true), they will as they are, and the world would witness their triumph. However, for now, I will content them with this holy verse: "Surely Allah will not change the fate of a people unless they change their own circumstances." - Al-Afghani (the father of Islamic modernism)
Stay in the love way of the Legend!
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